Learning to Be Alone

As a LDS single 25 and 1/2 year old, I've spent a lot of time being alone. At times I despise it. I may or may not cry. ;) Yet, when I look back with the added perspective of understanding and the gospel I am very grateful for this time that I have had to become myself. I have always believed that before a woman become a wife or a mother, she needs to become some one.

Looking back on the valleys of my trials perched upon the hills of my time and experience, I see in myself a growth and strength that would not have happened had I been blessed with "Da Man" before now. There's a lot. I blab enough as it is. I won't get into that lengthy list here. I'll just mention one. I've learned to be alone. And like it. :) Maybe a little bit too much at times. :0 ;) "I'm alone, but I ain't lonely". I like being free. Doing what I want, when I want.

It occurred to me that when I do get married, there will be times when we must be alone together.... if that makes sense. I'll be prepared to avoid a taxing adversarial relationship with my spouse. There's a lot going into this thought. About 3 jlog entries. Or more. I lose track. :) Suffice that to be it. And enjoy the following movie clip! :)